The short answer is that having sex creates
karma. There are several levels to these two energies (karma is
simply energy that is held with a certain expectation).
Sex is a form of power that is expressed through the first and
second chakras. These chakras represents the life urge and survival,
and as such, have very little social conscience. In a society
with other people, this can be a major problem, because survival
urges are totally self-centered, without regard for others.
Sexual energy is quite powerful, being represented
by the sign Scorpio (though this is not by any means the only
thing Scorpios are interested in. Intensity is the key word here.).
Without a conscience, it often ends up being expressed destructively.
Conscience is an awareness that our actions affect other people,
and it is definitely to our advantage to stay within the mores
of the culture. This avoids in large part upsetting others.
Conscience is also the seed of karma, though
there are other aspects of it as well. First off, karma is not
something God does to us because we are bad. Karma is the residue
of all our accumu-
lated experiences in this and other lifetimes.
In that sense, it is always a "right-now" thing, because
it is our perception of our karma in present time that creates
a sense of owing or obligation, not some judgment God makes of
our actions.
For example, if we believe we owe someone
as a result of our actions, then that is our karma. If we believe
we are complete about the situation, then we have just changed
our karma– not by action, but by our perception of the situation.
Guilt is one of the prime instigators of karma,
partly because guilt always demands punishment and partly because
people who experience guilt often end up interfering in other
people's lives, out of the fear that they haven't done enough
good yet. In addition, sexuality carries some of the heaviest
emotional baggage of anything we do.
The principle is that power is created by
taking responsibility for self. Sex, a form of power, works as
a healthy, enlivening, and enjoyable part of life when we are
willing to handle the karma we create every time we express ourselves.
Karma works in our favor when we take full responsibility for
what we create. As long as we deny anything about who we are and
what we have done, we also, in direct proportion to our avoidance,
divorce ourselves from our power.
The catch-22 is that people who are running
from their past don't feel powerful (even if they are tyrants),
and people who don't feel powerful are usually running from their
past. The answer is to start accepting the
results of our efforts, without judgment, self-abuse, or guilt.
Only when we get to this point do we even have a chance of changing
the old pattern.
It is simply not possible to simultaneously
be angry with- and forgiving of-self without eventually creating
emotional and physical problems. Once we make a clear choice to
let go, the heaviness and old blocks release. Same as it ever
was– forgiveness clears the way.
Ken Kizer is an author, astrologer, and rebirther
who lives in Richmond, VA. He can be reached at (804) 320-6959
or cfa@i2020.net